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When I was growing up - I consider mambo kama kulamba kumo(sp) to be disgusting - saa hii it doesnt disgust me
You just made an observation that is grounded in science perhaps without being aware of it. As you grow the environment influences not just your beliefs, but also environmental issues will affect human health and wellness. You saw what harvoc covid did and we are not sure what lasting effects it left on those it hit but survived.
But staying with environmental factors affecting personality and human development, if for the last 10 or more years, you have lived in the West like @Termie and others still out there, you are probably numb to the idea that same sex relationships are no big wow because you see them na macho on the streets of European capitals and American cities. My only advise is: if you have been recruited into the gay space, and you happen to travel back to Africa, choose the Countries you visit
very, very carefully coz you could find yourself in a sea of trouble coz what is harmless where you just came from may be toxic say like in a country like Uganda.
No one need call me names for providing this friendly piece of advice. It is what it is!