There are very few options for a man with some disposable income to socialise away from bars - dingy or affluent. Any man who is not engaged in tiring manual work will always have reserve energies and cash.
You plant maize; wait few weeks -weed; then wait 3 months - harvest; you have too much time to drink your busaa. Same with coffee, tea. Same with a zero grazed cow youthful farmer in kiambu- wake up at 3, milk rush to the dairy lorry. Go back home feed the cow in a few minutes and you have hours if not whole day to idle around unless you are engaged as a hawker in town or gikomba - why anyway you already got your cash at 3 a.m. waiting for another batch at 2 p.m.; and ain't paying rent.
Where else to socialise:
Church- many men who go to church seem totally emasculated - kanisa ni ya wamama na watoto.
Shopping malls- what a nonsense?
TV, politics - rarely get one the high unless you are invested, in the thick of the scum shit.
Exercises- Walevis have chosen only way to punish their bodies is through alcohol not frowned upon exercise. Schools made exercises and play become a punishment just like the manual labour, not a health pursuit.
Drugs- That shiet is too expensive - financially and socially. The junkies don't look sociable at all- wasted through and through. At least we are okay with drunk presidents, junkies no, no - even likes of johos, kabogos, and sonkos, rarely do they get high on their own supply. I bet mwafrka is too poor to afford drugs except for a few get to open the errand boxes. Even alcohol we do with cheap liqours, cigarettes and some bhang.
In a bar, your money and/or social skills can get you an absolute high; excitement; good music; dance space and when into it - convenient and cheap sex from a variety of women.