Story usually goes like this:
1) Man goes to the USA
2) Man hustles, gets stable income.
3) Man needs wife. He soon finds out majority of African women in USA are not fit for marriage
4) Man decides to import kienyeji wife straight out of Mt Kenya Foothills. Woman is staunch SDA and is the best anyone can get.
5) Man educates wife in the best school of USA
6) Woman interact with Babylon women, system, and start making small money while studying. Man still in charge.
7) Woman start to learn how USA system work and soon is graduating into a nursing job.
Woman start to notice he can do better than his man, and that there's gazillion men better than his man.
9) Crack start develop in household.
10) Woman use system to advantage. Other women advice how they dealt with similar situations, show her where to seek help.
11) Man get frustrated has he know his life long investment is going under water kaput