Generally unless it someone wife; in kalenjin; sharing is caring; and even someone wife can have a boyfriend kind of; and if you catch them; the man will be fined one cow and your wife one cow to pay the man
. The men are almost expected to cheat. In fact some kalenjin men use to bring malayas from town - and displace their wife in their matrimonial bed
- enda ulale na watoto - niko na mgeni
Kalenjin, Luhya, and Luos are very promiscuous
. I find Kikuyu to be the most faithful because they are naturally very mean like Ogiek or dorobo. Kalenjin are very generous people - sharing is caring kind of. In fact Njuri if your were to live in kalenjin land - women (mothers) would send their daughter to you - enda salamia njuri na usirudi mapema kind of talk
if they like you - or your friends would just bring you a girl. Huwezi lala njaa. Bora useme tu.
Interesting never knew this, generally thought main driver of prostitution is poverty, women of vulnerable background are susceptible to the vice,thats why its easy to lure them,but it would be not normal for someone employed to be doing so unless there is another underlying factor.
I also noticed many kalenjin women keep a kalenjin boyfriend and a mukabila by the side and its totally cool.