Thanks everyone
I'm well, it was a grease fire, I'd switched the gas off and the first thing the firefighters asked about was my little one. Who being an intelligent little chap I found him shivering in the bathroom corner. It's been quite traumatic for him but we're both doing well.
The place is a mess but the support has been phenomenal. The firefighters were incredible, cleaned up the place, building management, builders, assessors, all very compassionate. I'm surprised with the attention I've been recieving about this incident. Being a fire victim seems to earn some warped local celeb status with media etc.
Its indeed been like the matrix the last couple days with people sincerely giving a f about me.