Poleni. The crying helps - had a neighbour's wive back in the village collapse, just after preparing the kids for school. when the husband - boda boda guy- came back for breakfast after attending to early rising customers, she had collapsed by the fireside- a heart attack -gone! It really hit me. Quite grateful that with support the man and the kids are coping well. Very hard for the man taking up double roles as he works for fees. Requires all sort of moral and financial support.