Unfortunately Kadame in Kenya it is.
The Feminists have hijacked the Female Human Rights agenda. It went down somewhat under the Kibaki era when he co-opted most of them into government and by that disarmed most NGOs. The likes of Koome, Abidha Ali, Baraza etc that led with the most poisonous charges were disarmed with money and the trappings of power.
When parliament passed laws setting up demands for degrees and higher education, name one Feminist who protested and educated the public that most women in Kenya would be denied their Right to be voted for?
They instead saw it as an opportunity to continue to speaks for "women" when in effect they are no diiferent from the wealthy powerful men.
My idea of a Kenyan woman is a barefooted, woman with feet cracked and having her hair under a scarf (kitambaa). She would be wearing what we call rinda or leso (coast) sewn without fashion in mind.
The other woman is a younger woman / girl without much education, probably a maid, speaks little or no english and struggling or as they say "hustling". Those are the majority. They attend political rallies, sell mboga and have no voice.
Women like you are a minority of minorities but have the strongest and loudest voice.
This is NOT a feminist issue. It is a humanist issue. Civility. I don"t even like militant feminists.