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Offline KenyanPlato

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Mental health. KENYANS IN USA in a crisis
« on: July 22, 2024, 01:17:30 PM »
In Delaware two women have committed suicide in the last two months. One lady in May and the other last week. It seems women are suffering mental illness in silence. One thing about usa is that mental health treatment here sucks. Also, I believe lack of social support for mental health patients especially those coming from Africa further creates more risks. These women families had tried all manner of interventions but with little success. Mental illness is, financially draining and emotionally draining.

If you are struggling with mental health please seek professional help.

Offline RV Pundit

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Re: Mental health. KENYANS IN USA in a crisis
« Reply #1 on: July 22, 2024, 07:11:29 PM »
Winter makes it worse.

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Re: Mental health. KENYANS IN USA in a crisis
« Reply #2 on: July 22, 2024, 07:24:37 PM »
I think lack of meaningful relationships, especially long-term marriage. Divorced, single, seperated men and women alway start experiencing mental issues after above 35. Those with no kids, and spouses are even at worse state, they go completely nuts. Traditional family where man and woman and thriving kids live in one roof has shown to be the cure of mental illness (Avasthi, 2010). In"Preserve and strengthen family to promote mental health", Avashthi detailed good data that should be modelled!. Men and women should start relationship in 20s and stay married through 90s, and mental health will be cut by more than half.  That large study in India showed traditional marriage is the key to weakening mental illness!
With children, Results from growth curve models confirm that, even before marital breakup, children whose parents later divorce exhibit higher levels of anxiety/depression and antisocial behavior than children whose parents remain married. There is a further increase in child anxiety/depression but not antisocial behavior associated with the event of parental divorce itself. Controlling for predivorce parental socioeconomic and psychosocial resources fully accounts for poorer child mental health at initial interview among children whose parents later divorce, but does not explain the divorce-specific increase in anxiety/depression. Finally, a significant interaction between parental divorce and predivorce levels of family dysfunction suggests that child antisocial behavior decreases when marriages in highly dysfunctional families are dissolved (Strohschein, 2005).
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Re: Mental health. KENYANS IN USA in a crisis
« Reply #3 on: July 22, 2024, 08:29:05 PM »
I agree with RVHH - family and social institutions keep us sane -

Offline KenyanPlato

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Re: Mental health. KENYANS IN USA in a crisis
« Reply #4 on: July 22, 2024, 08:44:33 PM »
One was married living with kids, with extend family and many friends...the other was separated had issues with mental health, kids had moved back to Ke and ex husband too had relocated. She had lost a son in that was hit by a car.

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Re: Mental health. KENYANS IN USA in a crisis
« Reply #5 on: July 23, 2024, 04:02:20 PM »
In Delaware two women have committed suicide in the last two months. One lady in May and the other last week. It seems women are suffering mental illness in silence. One thing about usa is that mental health treatment here sucks. Also, I believe lack of social support for mental health patients especially those coming from Africa further creates more risks. These women families had tried all manner of interventions but with little success. Mental illness is, financially draining and emotionally draining.

If you are struggling with mental health please seek professional help.

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Re: Mental health. KENYANS IN USA in a crisis
« Reply #6 on: July 23, 2024, 06:51:43 PM »
I know a lady from Kenya, she is in her 50’s, married but the Mzee refused to relocate from Kenya. I have always had good intentions with her and we actually met in Kenya earlier this year. I met her recently and she was fidgety and saying weird shit, things that did not make sense. The other day, one of her friends called and told me to go see her, she is in a mental institution. It’s crazy how quickly that shit can hit you. It’s also affecting a lot of Kenyan kids and especially boys, I think it’s the pressure to succeed from immigrants parents suffering from financial trauma from back home.

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Re: Mental health. KENYANS IN USA in a crisis
« Reply #7 on: July 23, 2024, 07:38:24 PM »
Ladies seem to be carrying a lot of burden. Kenyan men can be cruel leeches