Cheating with married wives is one surest way to die early.
I agree on farming - passive crops - permanent no stress crops.
I dont think you understand what marriage is about - it's not about sex.
Sex you can buy anytime.
Marriage is find a companion - a friend - someone to keep your busy.
Some you take care of - if they are sick - and they do the same.
Those sick kids - will also take care of you - when you're sick.
But you 1st wife and their kids - will be out of the nest - they will be conspiring to finishing you either way.
Their intention will be to inherit your wealth - while almost totally leaving you lonely and depressed.
But if you have new smaller wife with smaller kids who depend on you - they will value you like your 1st wife did and the kids.
Then you die
and you've lived two lifetimes - married twice - raised kids twice.
Your 1st wife will understand - and the kids will understand - you just put down your feet.
And you also make sure you move town.
Dont marry in Gatundu - move far - and start new life - say in Malindi.
Very unlikely an 60yr old woman can fight over man and his new wife; she will have no fight left in her; how can she compete with 35yrs old.
If they follow you - Join awour church and act mad for few months
Invest in farmland of 100acres with 5 blocks of 20 acres each block to have oranges mangoes lemon apple avocado so in every season that is after every 2 months you will be getting 1Mn..then build small apartments and godowns warning maybe 300k pm that's enough...that thing of shares is no go zone.
After this,rent a 2 bedroom apartment in lavibgton.Have two or three girlfriends between 32-39 years who still have lots of sexual energy.make sure they are people wives which means they come with less baggage and less phone calls to disturb you...then have a house maid mature for random quickie...lots of alcohol..you will enjoy life.
Marrying a woman in your 50s is crazy.The fight between her and step children..the small baby crying,Mara hospital at night in laws drama then this lady will be milking you dry or steal from you or kill you like Cohen.. you won't even measu her sexual drive..she will cheat with shamba boy.you will become mad.