I dont associate - I vote for best candidate - when all factors are considered. I vote for Uhuru, Sonko, Ruto, Kibaki, Raila before - and all have their serious failings - but I evaluate them on many factors - and settle on the best for the season.
What you need to do is raise your intellectual depth to be able to vote for someone without spending all your life trying to love them and all their failings.
Love your wife and family - and kids - ingine ni ten feet pole.
I will vote for Ruto - knowing he is super corrupt - but I also know he is super efficient - I know he will create 100B - and steal 10B dollars - and become a trillionaire.
In trucking business - where I am somewhat invovled - I long gave up on finding a driver or turnboy who wont steal from me - all of them are thieves - so I go for other qualities. I like those that steal but bring lots of business - the hardworking lot who take initiaitve - he benefits - and I also benefit. If you get a Raila type - who just steal and wait for you to give him business...your business will collapse.
That's good. Just don't associate with them for bad company corrupts good morals.