I used to do that "did it rain thing" too. Kalenjin men are cultured trained and expected to stoics- display no emotion - of pain -of love. The women are supposed to pick the cues. Certainly, we are not supposed to be emotional and sentimental - and publicly display affection. It's considered unmanly. If you want a woman - you simply snatched her and marry her. No question asked. There a grass - Kikuyu grass - that once you tie her with - it was game over. She will become your wife
whether she likes or not.