Oy! A German woman asked me about FGM yesterday. This is one of those things that tempts me to disown my Africanness. What a disgrace. Robina, this is the stuff that should inform you that Africans are largely from 3,000 years ago, Bazungu time.
I feel sorry for the hubby, but I'd still jail his behind. Not because I don't understand but because there's no negotiating with/fading iron-age barbarism: you punish it out of existence. Ruthlessly. That's the only way. It's how the British killed widow-burning in India.