RP
For me it is simple and clear: You hate me don't expect love. If you slap me on once, I punch you at least twice.
That said, a racist or tribalist is governed by hate. There is little you can do about it.
On charity: One of the Chelsea Fans who kicked a black man off a train in France works for a charity dealing with "Human Rights". I can only assume he is there for want of a better job.