Okuyos & broken marriages. Gets deadly too often

[KenyanPlato]

Githunguri is a simp. How does a woman take your wealth. You got be a moron to let that happen. One thing I know is I will never lose money to anyone or wealth.

[RV Pundit]

Life has no manual
Marriage is hit-miss kind of thing
Some people strike golden women like RVHH and are also golden husband.
Most of us are average and stick to marriage
Others like Kenya Platos have 5 baby mamas.
Others never marry or divorce.
Just stop before you do extra silly stuff like this guy.

We need to here more about this guy but there is no excuse to plan to murder someone else.

Gone for life.

[RV Heavy Hitter!]

Life has no manual
Marriage is hit-miss kind of thing
Some people strike golden women like RVHH and are also golden husband.
Most of us are average and stick to marriage
Others like Kenya Platos have 5 baby mamas.
Others never marry or divorce.
Just stop before you do extra silly stuff like this guy.

We need to here more about this guy but there is no excuse to plan to murder someone else.

Gone for life.

It is about personal choices and best practices. You can choose to be a great person or a flawed human being. Some men or women can choose to love money and material things or decide to build a great family. It is all choices in the brain you make. Most folks have modest mental issues that tend to compel them to make bad choices, which cascade to other facets of their life.
Cultural issues, peer pressure, and addictions of some sort also pile on top, making the situation even dire.
For issues like divorce, data show extramarital affairs, physical abuse, substance abuse, lack of family support, and financial stress account for 90% of the causes. All those are usually, to some extent, things a man or a woman of substance can avoid. Make good choices from the adult age, and you can easily avoid it! I think there is a manual, be a great human being all the time, and you can avoid the bad things of life!

[Githunguri]

Life has no manual
Marriage is hit-miss kind of thing
Some people strike golden women like RVHH and are also golden husband.
Most of us are average and stick to marriage
Others like Kenya Platos have 5 baby mamas.
Others never marry or divorce.
Just stop before you do extra silly stuff like this guy.

We need to here more about this guy but there is no excuse to plan to murder someone else.

Gone for life.

It is about personal choices and best practices. You can choose to be a great person or a flawed human being. Some men or women can choose to love money and material things or decide to build a great family. It is all choices in the brain you make. Most folks have modest mental issues that tend to compel them to make bad choices, which cascade to other facets of their life.
Cultural issues, peer pressure, and addictions of some sort also pile on top, making the situation even dire.
For issues like divorce, data show extramarital affairs, physical abuse, substance abuse, lack of family support, and financial stress account for 90% of the causes. All those are usually, to some extent, things a man or a woman of substance can avoid. Make good choices from the adult age, and you can easily avoid it! I think there is a manual, be a great human being all the time, and you can avoid the bad things of life!

I think we need to separate issues.CARDINAL.RULES.

(1) God gives women two things,A brain and a VAGINA.If the brains fail to work,women use the vagina.In this scenario,If a Kenyan wife is given an opportunity to choose between her marriage and USA greencard,she would choose the green card and escape poverty.Look at Robert mugabe wife,she divorced her stupid husband,got him deported to china as a diplomat and became mugabe wife.Look at women leaders in Kenya,the Vagina rules.If there is a better offer than marriage,fuck marriage.Its garbage.A stupid man who doesn 't understand this will kill a woman and later learn while in jail or keep his peace in the grave.

(2) Human beings are polygamous in nature.This issue of you should only have sex with your husband or wife till death is a lie.Christianity ends after the church service.In the old traditional african culture,cheating was allowed amongst women.In kikuyu culture especially nyeri,women were allowed to even have one kid born out of wedlock.That said,even pastors themselves are the most promiscous people on earth,look at kibaki,ruto,Moi,they have children born out of their marriages,look at women sex scandals like alfred mutua lilian juliani,shebesh sonko,wamugunda karua,passaris etc etc.

The only reason RVHH is loyal to his wife is that they jointly own property or she is very rich,its the same reason why a woman would stick with you.Otherswise,a moneyed man and pussy are inseparable twins.

The moment a man understands how the brain,vagina and natural survival instinct in women works,that becomes the end of his troubles on earth.A woman can do anything,anytime and can leave you anytime.

End of topic.

[Githunguri]

For those who doubt women are pathological liars.

[audacityofhope]

For those who doubt women are pathological liars.

A little translation to explain your point would help put your point across

[RV Pundit]

Definitely staying on good behaviour helps;
But also remember this game of two people;
Sometimes you get the wrong partner;
You can try make it work - however imperfect - or divorce.
But we should stop before we kill each other.

It is about personal choices and best practices. You can choose to be a great person or a flawed human being. Some men or women can choose to love money and material things or decide to build a great family. It is all choices in the brain you make. Most folks have modest mental issues that tend to compel them to make bad choices, which cascade to other facets of their life.
Cultural issues, peer pressure, and addictions of some sort also pile on top, making the situation even dire.
For issues like divorce, data show extramarital affairs, physical abuse, substance abuse, lack of family support, and financial stress account for 90% of the causes. All those are usually, to some extent, things a man or a woman of substance can avoid. Make good choices from the adult age, and you can easily avoid it! I think there is a manual, be a great human being all the time, and you can avoid the bad things of life!

[audacityofhope]

True. No one goes into a marriage hoping it will fail because when it does, there are no winners. Reading the signs and walking away sooner than later saves one or the other from doing something silly that will get you behind bars a very long time. First accept that it can happen to anyone and then you will not cloud your judgement!

Definitely staying on good behaviour helps;
But also remember this game of two people;
Sometimes you get the wrong partner;
You can try make it work - however imperfect - or divorce.
But we should stop before we kill each other.

It is about personal choices and best practices. You can choose to be a great person or a flawed human being. Some men or women can choose to love money and material things or decide to build a great family. It is all choices in the brain you make. Most folks have modest mental issues that tend to compel them to make bad choices, which cascade to other facets of their life.
Cultural issues, peer pressure, and addictions of some sort also pile on top, making the situation even dire.
For issues like divorce, data show extramarital affairs, physical abuse, substance abuse, lack of family support, and financial stress account for 90% of the causes. All those are usually, to some extent, things a man or a woman of substance can avoid. Make good choices from the adult age, and you can easily avoid it! I think there is a manual, be a great human being all the time, and you can avoid the bad things of life!

[audacityofhope]

WOMEN ARE DOGS,You know that song?If you knew what your housemaid,watchman,Inlaws,Friends,know about your wife,you would shoot her dead like the kcb ex manager.

Siku yako ikifika,utalijua jiji.

Yenyewe those you have mentioned,  watchiees, housemaids etc go to their graves with a lot of secrets....

[audacityofhope]

What nonsense! stop listening to that loser andrew kibe. You clearly are either divorced or single.  American is a country of laws.  If you go to work and follow the law, you will have no issues.  People get divorced all the time and move on with their lives.

Oxymoron. You castigate a guy for being divorced or single then you go on to say [it is normal] people get divorced all the time and move on.
Shida ya kuropoka ndo hio. When will you ever learn to pass on a non-contradictory message?

[gout]

I saw a comment that choosing a woman is just like when buying a thermos. Ni kuangukia tu. You do due diligence pay top price and it won't keep tea warm. Another stumbles on Chinese knockdown and it functions for decades.

The ability and choice on when to run depends on the mettle you are made of.

We go to school for decades on how to serve the plantation for simple tasks such as sales, accounting, teaching, health, IT name it, but you will be lucky to get a few lessons on how to live with another human being for decades.

Definitely staying on good behaviour helps;
But also remember this game of two people;
Sometimes you get the wrong partner;
You can try make it work - however imperfect - or divorce.
But we should stop before we kill each other.

It is about personal choices and best practices. You can choose to be a great person or a flawed human being. Some men or women can choose to love money and material things or decide to build a great family. It is all choices in the brain you make. Most folks have modest mental issues that tend to compel them to make bad choices, which cascade to other facets of their life.
Cultural issues, peer pressure, and addictions of some sort also pile on top, making the situation even dire.
For issues like divorce, data show extramarital affairs, physical abuse, substance abuse, lack of family support, and financial stress account for 90% of the causes. All those are usually, to some extent, things a man or a woman of substance can avoid. Make good choices from the adult age, and you can easily avoid it! I think there is a manual, be a great human being all the time, and you can avoid the bad things of life!

[Githunguri]

True. No one goes into a marriage hoping it will fail because when it does, there are no winners. Reading the signs and walking away sooner than later saves one or the other from doing something silly that will get you behind bars a very long time. First accept that it can happen to anyone and then you will not cloud your judgement!

Definitely staying on good behaviour helps;
But also remember this game of two people;
Sometimes you get the wrong partner;
You can try make it work - however imperfect - or divorce.
But we should stop before we kill each other.

It is about personal choices and best practices. You can choose to be a great person or a flawed human being. Some men or women can choose to love money and material things or decide to build a great family. It is all choices in the brain you make. Most folks have modest mental issues that tend to compel them to make bad choices, which cascade to other facets of their life.
Cultural issues, peer pressure, and addictions of some sort also pile on top, making the situation even dire.
For issues like divorce, data show extramarital affairs, physical abuse, substance abuse, lack of family support, and financial stress account for 90% of the causes. All those are usually, to some extent, things a man or a woman of substance can avoid. Make good choices from the adult age, and you can easily avoid it! I think there is a manual, be a great human being all the time, and you can avoid the bad things of life!

Correct.
There are no winners in divorce.The biggest victim will be the children,Their father in Jail and their mother starting a new life while depressed,she will fall into the wrong hands sooner or later.They children will not be able to concentrate in school,they may even never get married or have children.some of these kids falls into drugs,others even commit suicide.The second batch will be the parents of the divorces,they will die of heart problems thinking of the events that just transpired.Sometimes before people get into marriage,they need to understand that there are very many people involved.There is nothing good that comes out of divorce.

Men are the most affected by divorce,when the woman leaves and you wake up and look at the house you built together,the children clothing,books,car,memories,photos,you automatically become mad.you either sink into depression or harm your ex wife.To avoid all this,polygamy is the other,if one woman leaves,you are left with another with children.Allowing a single woman to control your offspring is dangerous to your existence.

As a man you should also know,Before a woman leaves you,She has sat down,thought about her options and knows you are an asshole.If you chase her you are the looser.I would n't be surprised that woman is already living with another man in Usa.

[gout]

Githunguri on this subject sounds like a character in Bukowski writings.

The Shoelace

a woman, a
tire that’s flat, a
disease, a
desire: fears in front of you,
fears that hold so still
you can study them
like pieces on a
chessboard…
it’s not the large things that
send a man to the
madhouse. death he’s ready for, or
murder, incest, robbery, fire, flood…
no, it’s the continuing series of small tragedies
that send a man to the
madhouse…
not the death of his love
but a shoelace that snaps
with no time left …
The dread of life
is that swarm of trivialities
that can kill quicker than cancer
and which are always there -
license plates or taxes
or expired driver’s license,
or hiring or firing,
doing it or having it done to you, or
roaches or flies or a
broken hook on a
screen, or out of gas
or too much gas,
the sink’s stopped-up, the landlord’s drunk,
the president doesn’t care and the governor’s
crazy.
light switch broken, mattress like a
porcupine;
$105 for a tune-up, carburetor and fuel pump at
sears roebuck;
and the phone bill’s up and the market’s
down
and the toilet chain is
broken,
and the light has burned out -
the hall light, the front light, the back light,
the inner light; it’s
darker than hell
and twice as
expensive.
then there’s always crabs and ingrown toenails
and people who insist they’re
your friends;
there’s always that and worse;
leaky faucet, christ and christmas;
blue salami, 9 day rains,
50 cent avocados
and purple
liverwurst.

or making it
as a waitress at norm’s on the split shift,
or as an emptier of
bedpans,
or as a carwash or a busboy
or a stealer of old lady’s purses
leaving them screaming on the sidewalks
with broken arms at the age of 80.

suddenly
2 red lights in your rear view mirror
and blood in your
underwear;
toothache, and $979 for a bridge
$300 for a gold
tooth,
and china and russia and america, and
long hair and short hair and no
hair, and beards and no
faces, and plenty of zigzag but no
pot, except maybe one to piss in
and the other one around your
gut.

with each broken shoelace
out of one hundred broken shoelaces,
one man, one woman, one
thing
enters a
madhouse.

so be careful
when you
bend over.

https://allpoetry.com/poem/14326889-The-Shoelace-by-Charles-Bukowski

[Githunguri]

For those who doubt women are pathological liars.

A little translation to explain your point would help put your point across

It’s over, the groom in the failed Bomet wedding tells the bride.

Video by Gilbert Kimutai pic.twitter.com/prIFKCxmgm

— The Standard Digital (@StandardKenya) December 11, 2023

1)The inooro tv interview kikuyu woman who murdered the husband is in swahili.very clear.you can even google search on story for factual details.
2) The second one is the lady who refused to get married on wedding day last weekend and even blames the pastor.She lies that its not her fault,however the young man speaks the truth and calls her out.

Women are very dangerous creatures.

[RV Heavy Hitter!]

I firmly believe mental illness and history have a lot to do with many ills in society, relationships included. If you are sane and married, especially with kids, a normal thing to do is go above and beyond to solve problems instead of divorce. Those divorcing while they have kids create more significant problems, though they think they are cutting the issues. Wife, Kids, husband, and entire tree will suffer in the short and long term. More importantly, the community and the world will suffer. The family unit is a workshop where humans are molded, fine-tuned, and released to society as decent folk! If not recalibrated right, they will, over time, be defects in a community where they likely churn more flawed humans.
On Polygamy, I think the problems are being exacerbated and magnified because if one cannot handle one wife and few kids, imagine two wives and many more kids. It is better to have eight kids from one woman than two wives with four kids each! The more the relationships, the more problems, mainly when kids are grown and the family becomes large.

Anyone can be a father, but being a great dad or mom for at least 30+ years (Kids to get performing software) requires focus and personal integrity.
From day 1, dad has to play his role and so as mom for decades without ifs or buts. I may view things in the Western mindset since I have lived in the US for most of my adult life. Still, globally, women love a fully present father, especially dads like me who do algebra, the periodic table, and world history and keep tabs on what kids are learning daily. You do the right things and what makes your spouse happy; I don't see divorce or disagreements in the family. Play your role with integrity and efficiency as a head of the household, and everything will be fine. You fail and the whole family will fail!
Drinking in bars, hanging out with friends, and not knowing your kid's routine are ways to fail as a man! You should hang out with your wife and kids outside your everyday routine! It is stress-free and works magic!

[Fairandbalanced]

I will preface this by saying that I love my wife and the life we are building together but marriage is a human and religious construct that does not work for majority of people. In the USA, 60% of all marriages end up in divorce causing a lot of societal isssues. If you have been around an average American, when they talk about their families, you get lost in the middle of the conversation, so many divorces all the way from grandparents to multiple step fathers and step mothers, sisters, half brothers etc. if you are lucky and meet the right person, it’s wonderful, if not, you are screwed. Look at Tiger woods, married his maid but was young so he wanted to screw around. The maid found out and completely screwed him up to where he was on medication for sex addiction( another idiotic thing), the guy has never been the same again. The world is becoming less religious and I think institutions like marriage will also eventually disappear but not in our lifetime. In places like Kenya, people are also starting to question things like Christianity and its meaning to us, and its ridiculousness. If look at places like Kenya, most people live on horrible marriages of convenience, it’s totally pathetic, I look at some of my Kenyan friends and wonder why they are even married, they do not even seem to like each other, there is nothing worse than a loveless, sexless marriage.