vooke, so you saying what we catholics do is not tithe? Yes, we dont pay 10% but we always give to the church sadaka (those who go to church). When I was in campo, I always gave about a fifth of my pocket money for the sadaka on Sunday, and I know shopkeepers who give unga, sugar, mafuta etc on sunday, or farmers who bring the produce of their fields. I feel as a single person, you give more than a person who has a family to look after and even today when I go to mass on Sunday and don't put anything in the collection box, it doesn't feel OK to me. Why? Because even in preparing that mass, my parish has used certain expenses: electricity/water/the weekly needs of the priest like food.
I've heard the youth in my church who make no money told to give to the church in the form of time and talent. So they volunteer for choir, visiting the sick, work around the church etc. I have always considered that this was tithe/duty, in the sense that it was an obligation. Sure, the priest will never ever reprimand those who dont do it, but we all know its not optional before God to have treasure (money), time and talents, and to set no part of it for God's designated receivers (the needy & the church). Adults mostly give in terms of cash...not all of them course! I would say about only half actually give regularly to the church.
In my parish, we were building a dispensary and then a new church building to replace the one we were using which was old and run down, so we would collect money for the project after mass every Sunday. There was a committee appointed that was in charge of the building fund. At one point, our parish priest requested us to give particular amounts (5,000/-) and for me I felt it was an act of obedience when the church says "We need this amount" and it's within my ability, then to do my part. I dont feel it is optional, that I can decide, "I have the money, but I dont want to contribute, and I have no obligation". Before Jesus, you certainly have an obligation if you have the ability.
So my question then is, the "spontaneous" giving, what does it mean? We both appear to agree there's no divine law to give specifically 10% or any fixed percentage of our income, but does it mean the freedom (not to give) is absolute? I only give when I feel like, not where there's a need in the church or poor, and ability (on my part)? That's the issue, do you consider there's an obligation not simply a permission but an obligation, to support the church whenever you are able and there's a need? If your answer to this is yes, then for me there's no debate, we agree. My position is that we do have a true obligation to give according to our means, the only excuse is when we don't have the ability. Regarding 10% as a divine institution, of course the old law does not bind Christians.